yes fuel pump stuffed
I was pretty sure it would be.
has filled sump with petrol
I was pretty sure of that too.
guess thats destroyed whole motor now?
Maybe, maybe not. At least it is running so you don't have to get it fixed immediately. I know such situations can seem too big to deal with but let's take it one step at a time.
Firstly how many Ks on the engine and how keen are you to change it? If it is 400k km old and you have been dying for an excuse to replace it with a 4.8 then don't even bother reading further, but if the km aren't too bad and you like the idea of keeping the engine then read on.
Lets get it running on petrol to begin with. You seem to have gotten most of the gunk out of the tank so I wouldn't worry too much more about that. A 90 litre tankful of petrol will clean things out pretty soon. Disconnect the fuel line from the carby and crank the engine until clean petrol is coming out. You will need to disassemble the carby and give it a good clean. There are some very small passages in a carby that oil won't flush from too easily and the faulty pump will have sent a fair whack of oil in its direction. I'd say the only thing wrong with the fuel cutoff solenoid is that it is full of oil and needs flushing.
Once the carby, fuel lines, cutoff solenoid etc. are clear of oil you should be able to get it running on petrol OK. The next step is to try and determine how much damage, if any, has occurred. If you have a deep knocking at idle then that will be a stuffed big end bearing but if there are no nasty knocks then lets try and have a look at the bores. This requires something like a Milwaukee Camera poked in a spark plug hole. Do this to all cylinders and have a look at the piston wall directly opposite the spark plug hole. If there is obvious aluminium on the cylinder wall from the piston skirts then the engine has to come apart. Some mild scuffing is Ok and is to be expected. Deep scoring is another thing though. If the engine sounds and looks OK then I'd just continue to run it. As long as it isn't going through much more oil than a litre in 5000km I would be happy with it.
If it is stuffed then there are several choices that are available to you. You just need to decide what direction you want to head in.
Cheers,